Why Mommy ( Abortion )
My smile will never be seen, my laugh will never be heard, they called me a parasite this is absurd.
My mommy decided abortion was best, i wish i had a voice so i could protest.
If i did i would say mommy please dont let me go, this is my life and i want it so,
Please mommy dont take my life away, i like it here and i really wanna stay.
What have i done, and what can i do, its not my fault im inside you.
But a voice i do not have so soon i will die, how could you do this to me mommy please tell me why?
trying to make things right 
tough stuff
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June 24, 2014 at 8:11 am
Yes it is.
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June 24, 2014 at 8:12 am
my 4 are all alive 🙂
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June 24, 2014 at 8:13 am
Four of mine are as well, I lost my daughter, but not because of anything like this.
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June 24, 2014 at 8:14 am
Sorry to hear it, I suppose that that happens.
1 of my 4 is not mine anymore due to a breakup and adoption.
It is tough stuff loosing a child.
great post BTW
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June 24, 2014 at 8:18 am
My daughter passed away right after she was born, im sorry for your loss as well. And thank you im glad you liked it.
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June 24, 2014 at 8:21 am
cheers friend
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June 24, 2014 at 8:23 am
WONDERFUL,WISH AN UNBURN CHILD COULD REALLY SPEAK
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June 24, 2014 at 8:23 am
So do I.
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June 24, 2014 at 8:25 am
I believe you just spoke for many of the yet to be borns. Bless you!
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June 24, 2014 at 8:38 am
Thankyou so much.
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June 24, 2014 at 8:39 am
Not an easy topic.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:03 am
Its not really that hard, people over complicate things that are really quite simple.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:06 am
It may seem simple to you because you’ve made up your mind. It might seem simple to a pro-choice person because they’ve made up their mind. If it were simple, it still wouldn’t be so hotly debated.
Legally, it’s not complicated. It’s already been decided.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:11 am
it seems simple because it is, just because there are some people who have power and say its okay doesnt mean it actually is. remember Hitler said it was okay to kill Jewish people to.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:16 am
Your comparing abortion to the Nazi’s?
If it were so simple, as you say, then it wouldn’t be such a hotly contested issue. It would be cut and dry.
It’s also not just ‘people in power’ who say. It has been challenged in courts of law over and over again.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:24 am
yes i am, and that is why i said people over complicate stuff. do you know how many babies are murdered every single year? 46 million. do you know how many people were murdered in the Holocaust 11 million. Abortion is disgusting! yes i know its legal, but that dont make it right.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:31 am
You’re certainly entitled to your opinion.
Fortunately (or unfortunately, depending on how you view the outcome) it has been ruled on by the courts over and over again and isn’t likely to change anytime soon.
I do think that mothers who have undergone the procedure for a variety of reasons, might justifiably be upset by being compared to Hitler.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:35 am
I dont really care, I am not comparing one specific persons acts to hitler, but the entire process. And im sure abortion laws wont change, until obama is out of office anyway.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:46 am
Wonderful post!
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June 24, 2014 at 9:32 am
Thankyou so much.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:39 am
You are a brave woman and for this I applaud you. Abortion is one of the most selfish choices a person can make. These babies didn’t ask to be conceived, but no doubt, they would love a chance at life and without question, they deserve one.
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June 24, 2014 at 12:23 pm
Thankyou so much, im not sure how brave I am, but everything else you said I agree with completely. 🙂
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June 24, 2014 at 12:26 pm
Well, I’ve seen other posts regarding this topic get hit pretty hard by people with different opinions. So just the point that you posted it, is an act of bravery. 🙂 But, good for you! People need to speak out about this more.
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June 24, 2014 at 12:34 pm
Again thank you so much. I dont care if people get mad at me about it, that is not my intention with this post though. My intention is that if a woman is considering abortion and sees this post, that she may change her mind. So many people keep saying that they arent babies, and i want women to know the truth and completely understand the seriousness of this decision. Its not like getting rid of lice, when having an abortion you are literally murdering your own flesh and blood.
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June 24, 2014 at 12:40 pm
I have nerver believed in ABortion… 😦 it’s such a sad thing.. when I got pregnant with my 4… I def. wanted all 4 and was going to do whatever I could to make it work no matter what…
1 of them didn’t make it. (miscarriage) but I could NEVER NEVER EVER abort one of mine. I don’t know how the hell females do it… smh.
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June 24, 2014 at 3:49 pm
I know I feel the same way, and again im sorry about your little one.
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June 24, 2014 at 3:54 pm
I’m sorry about yours… I think we’re great moms who have overcome a lot and I’m proud of us and the decisions to even have our kids when we knew it would be a struggle 🙂
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June 24, 2014 at 3:56 pm
Well thanks im proud of you to. 🙂
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June 24, 2014 at 4:01 pm
thank you 🙂
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June 24, 2014 at 5:23 pm
Reblogged this on Give Me Liberty.
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June 24, 2014 at 5:37 pm
A very heartfelt post! Great job!
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June 24, 2014 at 7:47 pm
Thankyou so much.
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June 24, 2014 at 9:03 pm
Very, very powerful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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June 25, 2014 at 5:34 am
Thanks hon.
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June 25, 2014 at 6:33 am
I respect your opinion. However, I have to disagree that this is a simple subject. There are two sides to this argument. You think its simple, abortion is wrong. I think its a very personal decision that a woman makes on her own and without the government’s intrusion. I know that my approach to understanding this issue is far from your own, but at the end of the day the individual has to live with that decision, no anyone else.
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July 13, 2014 at 3:21 pm
Would you say it is the mothers choice whether or not she beats her child? I doubt it, but when it comes to killing her baby, it should be her choice? Im sorry but I just dont understand that.
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July 13, 2014 at 3:26 pm
It will never be an issue viewed in black and white. People have brought up the same convincing arguments, and still, there are two sides to it. This will always be.
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July 13, 2014 at 3:30 pm
I sure hope it wont always be, I am a member of a very large group of people trying to change that.
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July 13, 2014 at 3:33 pm
And I hope that women continue to have the rights to their own bodies. As I said before, there are two sides to every argument and we all think we are right. And to me, that’s okay.
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July 13, 2014 at 3:36 pm
Abortion is giving women the rights to another person’s body. But you are entitled to your opinion.
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July 13, 2014 at 4:39 pm
I am entitled to my opinion just as you are. And I will continue to believe what I believe. We both have that right. I will never try to force my beliefs on others because we are free to think how we want. That is the American way, right?
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July 13, 2014 at 4:44 pm
well i wont get into all that with you, we believe much differently, perhaps it should be left at that.
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July 13, 2014 at 4:46 pm
I couldn’t ever fathom getting an abortion. But, its not my decision to make. I was by my friends side every single day when she went through her abortion, which is probably one of the reasons I never got one. We ended up not talking for almost a year after everything was said and done because she was so depressed, and stayed with her abusive boy fried no matter what I said to her. I couldn’t watch her do that to herself. Finally one day she called me up and we hashed everything out. She apologized and acknowledged that I was right, and I apologized for not being more sensitive to what was going on her mind after the abortion. I miss her though. She moved and now we don’t talk. I regret not being there for her after the choices she made regarding partying, and her boy friend. But I don’t regret being by her side through her abortion because I was the only one there for her. Her boy friend wasn’t, her mom worked all the time, her boy friends parents were the ones who influenced her to get an abortion and they hated her with a passion.
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October 10, 2014 at 8:21 pm
Im sorry to hear that your friend was pushed into that. But I just could never support that, anymore than I would support someone shooting another person. and saying I have my reasons, its the killing of an innocent person. However it is not my intention to put down people who have had an abortion in the past, because that wouldnt do any good, you cant change the past. I just want women to see and understand this is real life its not just this simple easy thing that makes no difference. Im trying to do my part to encourage women to do the right thing.
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October 10, 2014 at 8:29 pm
I agree with you. Abortion is such a messy topic because it involves that of an undeveloped life. That’s the confusing part. Some haven’t ever even had a heartbeat yet once the abortion has taken place, so is it really life before a heartbeat since a heartbeat is the essence of life? (hypothetical question). It’s so difficult. A fully developed, living, breathing child, who is conscious of what is happening, is much different than that of a cell with no heartbeat, ya know? There’s so much that makes it complicated. I have yet to decide where I stand on the subject because I can understand both sides to a certain extent. Both have very good points, thus why it’s a difficult subject. I used to be VERY pro-choice, but slowly started realizing the good points pro-lifers had and now I stand in the middle. Maybe more-so pro-choice because I still feel it’s wrong of me to force a woman to continue a pregnancy, but then again she could choose adoption, or other things. Even then though, that cluster of cells wouldn’t ever know they were going to be a human being, or anything of that extent because they had no thought, heartbeat, etc. till a certain point in a pregnancy. Then if you think of that way, a parent should be able to kill a child up until a certain age when they finally begin remembering things for the long term (which in my instance I only remember one thing fro preschool, and about 2 things from kindergarten, after that I remember mostly everything , but would it have been right of my parents to kill me before I went to preschool because I wouldn’t have remembered, known who I was, etc.? No, of course not. There’s a lot of comparisons one can make, and the list goes on and on. That’s why I’m on the fence now.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:17 pm
Well the way I see it if something has a heartbeat and you kill it its murder, a baby has a heartbeat about 4 weeks after conception. Now that doesnt mean I agree with abortion before that but if something has no heartbeat you cant really call it murder because it is not yet alive.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:32 pm
See, that’s how abortion is so tricky. People consider life to be life at different points.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:41 pm
But that is the crazy part, science and law both say if there is a heartbeat there is life.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:51 pm
Mhm. Like I said, abortion is such a messy topic because of all the variables. Some don’t believe life is life until it’s able to live outside of the womb. So they believe abortion should be legal up until the point in which if you took the fetus out of the womb, it would be able to survive. But then does that mean, survive without machines to help? or survive like a full term birth where the child doesn’t need any medical assistance? or does that mean, in any way if it could survive? Everyone’s views are so different and people are so set in stone in what they believe plus our society is becoming so uncompromising in our nature that it makes it difficult to come to an agreement that both sides are alright with.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:55 pm
The question people need to ask is simple is it better for a baby to have life or meet death. It gets complicated when you add in everything else, also people celebrate the birth of a child but I j ave never heard of people celebrating an abortion, that says a lot right there.
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October 10, 2014 at 10:10 pm
I suppose you have a point. but is it wrong to end the growth of cells that don’t have a heartbeat? or can not live? It’s easy to look at things with simplicity. But in reality it’s not simple. If things were simple the world would be much better than it is, because things would be so clear as to how they should be. If things were simple, kids wouldn’t be homeless, and hungry, or in orphanages. Parents wouldn’t have to be single and do everything on their own without the support of the other parent. Everyone would have unbiased, and affordable healthcare. People would be honest, and treat others with respect. There wouldn’t be drug addicts, and prisoners. There’s nothing simple when it comes to humans.
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October 10, 2014 at 10:18 pm
Well maybe its just simple to me, I think its better to give life then to take it away. Regardless of the wordplay. But anyway my dear im going to sleep now while I can, my 2 year old had 9 teeth pulled today so he isnt gonna sleep much. Night night
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October 10, 2014 at 10:31 pm
I may also over complicate things, I tend to do that about everything 😉 did his surgery go well?
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October 11, 2014 at 10:26 pm
Yeah his surgery went fine hes still having some pain though, but after pulling 9 teeth I guess anybody would.
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October 11, 2014 at 10:37 pm
Hope the recovery is good 🙂 my mom had like 10 pulled at once and my boy friend had 12. I can’t even imagine!
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October 11, 2014 at 10:49 pm
Thanks
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October 12, 2014 at 7:55 am
Beautiful post. A friend recently told me think of all the aborted babies we will see in heaven, the thought was so overwhelming. Keep letting your beautiful voice be heard, certainly those babies need advocates like you. God bless you honey
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October 10, 2014 at 9:00 pm
Thankyou so much sweetie, its such a sad thing, and I hope that if there is someone considering abortion they might see this post first.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:03 pm
Yes and Amen. God is using you
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October 10, 2014 at 9:05 pm
When I was pregnant and still working, there was a conversation about abortions and the different circumstances that lead women to deciding to get one. I stated that I wouldn’t be able to get an abortion and that I wouldn’t be able to live with myself. and this guy asked me “well what if you were raped and you had to have the baby even though it reminded you each and every day of being raped?” and I told him that even if I got raped and ended up pregnant from that, I would in fact keep the baby. Just because it would of been conceived under horrible circumstances, I wouldn’t look at the baby as a reminder of a horrible event but the only positive thing that happened from it. to me it wouldn’t be the babies fault that I got raped but at least i would have an innocent, beautiful baby to love and be strong for even though something terrible happened to me. and he was like “wow i never even thought of looking at it that way.
I have a few friends who have gotten abortions and I try not to judge them because its their life and even though I wouldnt take the same route as them they know how i feel about it.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:26 pm
Well Im glad you feel that way a lot of women dont now. I agree completely though.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:29 pm
It was the darkest day in the history of our country when abortion was legalized. Murder is murder no matter how much we try to paint a lesser picture. A life is a life at conception and the killing of a life is considered murder for whatever reason. Those who try to tell you something different are being dishonest. The mother of an aborted child is emotinally affected for life so no one wins in the end.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:40 pm
I agree, thanks for reading .
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October 10, 2014 at 9:52 pm
wow – I cried reading over this article. I don’t know how to explain the pain and tough stages. Your article raised important issue and matter. As always you are so powerful in sharing important topics.
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October 10, 2014 at 9:58 pm
Thankyou so much, I very much appreciate that. It is an issue that should make people cry, sadly it just doesnt bother most anymore.
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October 10, 2014 at 10:12 pm
Well said.
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October 11, 2014 at 12:11 pm
Thankyou
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October 11, 2014 at 1:17 pm
Hope all is well with you – I am concern since I have received any of your comments lately and also no more likes? is this more technical matter? I appreciate it!
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October 11, 2014 at 4:41 pm
I’ve been busy moving, havent had much time to be on WordPress lately
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October 11, 2014 at 4:43 pm
I very much appreciate responding back to me- Hope all is well with you:)
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October 11, 2014 at 4:45 pm
Reblogged this on Be Like Water.
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November 4, 2014 at 11:47 pm
This breaks my heart so much. I hate to think of all those innocent lives lost. They didn’t ask to be conceived, but that doesn’t mean they don’t deserve to be loved. Heartbreaking, so so heartbreaking, but someone has given a voice to the “clump of cells” so many think aren’t actually alive. It’s funny how scientists will sit there and call a single cell organism “life” but a baby at conception isn’t life???? Please tell me how that makes sense. Life begins at the moment of conception. Give that life a chance. You never know who that baby, Yes, BABY, could grow up to be.
Thank you for giving the innocent a voice.
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November 4, 2014 at 11:57 pm
Thankyou, I dont understand it either. Ya know there are things that have happened throughout history that when we think of it, we wonder how could people have ever been that barbaric, and one day others will look back and ask the same thing about us and how we could have thought murdering a baby was okay.
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November 5, 2014 at 5:57 am
That’s exactly why they dehumanize the baby by calling it a fetus. “It’s not a baby, it’s a fetus/zygote/clump of cells” and that somehow makes it ok, even though it has a heartbeat and brain activity. It’s so they can feel less guilty about the murder they’re about to do or have done.
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November 5, 2014 at 8:34 am
Are you all who are against abortion adopting the unwanted children who are born? Are you fostering the children whose parents are unable to take care of their children? Are you judge and jury? Opinions are one thing and actions to support your opinions are another thing. If you wish to end abortions then take actions to provide the unwanted children a family with healthcare.
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November 5, 2014 at 3:08 am
Yes as a matter I have been a foster parent and I know many others who have to, and you can save that speech for someone else because any kind of life is better than no life at all
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November 5, 2014 at 5:33 am
That’s awesome! Thanks but being a drug baby is not, being abused is not, and we may not agree but it is nice to hear that there are those who do take action to support their beliefs. Have a nice day!
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November 5, 2014 at 11:08 am
The thing about life is there is always another option and it can always be changed, but death is permanent. Hope you have a great day as well. 🙂
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November 5, 2014 at 11:27 am
Hope you can foster some of the drug babies and abused children, you can help them tremendously.
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November 5, 2014 at 11:30 am
Logan a child I fostered for three years was born with fetal alcohol syndrome and his mother broke his arm right before I got him, now he attends a private school and has a great life. I know what it is to be severely abused, raped, and homeless, but I changed my life, so I never see a good reason to end it, especially before it even begins.
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November 5, 2014 at 11:35 am
🙂 thank you for seeing and doing what you do to make his life better.
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November 5, 2014 at 1:51 pm
Your story about Logan might be a better way to make your point.
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November 5, 2014 at 1:56 pm