Feminism Ridiculousness at its best
I am seriously annoyed with some of the women in this country, it seems like no one understands what is important anymore. everywhere i look there are more women complaining. MY daughter likes pink and it bothers me, i am a woman and i deserve more rights, i am a woman so i should be able to murder my baby without judgment. These kinds of topics are all over the televisions newspapers and internet. So Here are some solutions. #1. Pink is a color if a color has the power to bother you that much you are a very shallow person and you need something more to fill up your day, just be happy that you have a daughter, mine is no longer with me. #2. Women have the same rights as men in this country stop whining, you have made it, you are there, you are equal, actually that last one is not true women now have more rights than men do.#3. If you do something evil and gross people are going to think of you differently.
I recently saw a post on wordpess that was talking about how a woman had used crack while she was pregnant and the baby died, she was charged with depraved heart murder. anyway long story short the person who wrote this post was like so happy because this woman got by with murder,she was saying thank you to this woman like she had just saved a baby from a burning building rather than the fact that she just killed her own, it actually made me sick to my stomach, and she was quite furious with me for saying the situation was disgusting. Then proceeded to inform me how breeders like me make her sick and that my boys should be taught respect, or they would end up dead or in prison with the other rapists and murderers. Now i was trying to hold back my anger until then but that comment was the last straw. For one thing I teach my children to respect those who deserve their respect, and to leave the trashy ones alone altogether, but it wasnt that she tried to make it personal that really bothered me, it was that this is a commen attitude towards boys and men now, and that makes me so sad for my sons. But i will try my hardest to raise my children right and teach them never to take crap from a woman just because she is a woman. And i can speak up and say women stop acting stupid try to remember what is important in life. I know its been a long time since most of you have done that ( if ever) but please try. Now dont get me wrong i know there are still some good women out there, but man its getting bad, i would say maybe 4 out of every 10 women are actually good moral women. How has it gotten this far? how have women, the ones who were once thought of as the most moral and nurturing, turned into this. I dont know, but it really is a sad situation.
Firstly, I agree with the bulk of this except I DO know the answers as to WHY this has got to this point – I just will not air them in a public forum. Few will like the answer, and nobody needs to invite a fire war here. However, we can talk privately if you wish. Email me.
And speaking of which – I sincerely hope you avoid the above mentioned vitriolic hater like the plague. People say all sorts of stupid, stupid things and yes, they deserve to be called onto the carpet for them. Sadly, they play by a whole different rule book, and the same sort of warped reasoning that caused her to make such comments is exactly what you will invite by being the one with the stones to call her on it. When people make hideous and inflammatory remarks, their ignorance tends to speak for itself. Anyone with half a brain would have drawn your conclusion and given her a well deserved wide berth, unfollowed or reported as inflammatory. Just try hard not to slip into the quagmire and mudwrestle with a troll. 🙂
As the mother of a son (and a daughter) myself, I understand your fears for their future. Rest assured, there are still good women out there and good men in the making. What your boys will look for in future wives is what they see first in you, be that good or bad. Make sure you have the moral fiber and courage to give them the best possible example.
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April 8, 2014 at 2:15 am
Thank you for your comment, i am avoiding this person cause i know that some people you just can’t reach. If you had told me a few years ago that my boys would look for the qualities they see in me, in other women it would have scared me to death. But now i think maybe that wouldn’t be to bad. Oh and i don’t know your email address.
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April 8, 2014 at 8:05 am
I am sure your boys’ impressions of womanhood are in good hands! 🙂 I’ll send you my email address …
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April 9, 2014 at 12:20 pm
Thank you so much. And that sounds good
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April 9, 2014 at 12:27 pm
This blog seems like a friendly place and I’d like to know what you’re thinking too. I’ve mined more feminist works than I care to admit and always on the hunt to find some new angle to shine light on the hypocrisy of feminism.
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April 16, 2014 at 8:42 pm
Thank you, I really do try to be friendly to people, it doesnt always work but I try. Im not sure I know what you mean by what im thinking
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April 16, 2014 at 9:02 pm
I meant to reply to motherhendiaries about why she thinks feminism is on the rise. My bad….
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April 16, 2014 at 9:03 pm
Oh okay. Lol
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April 16, 2014 at 9:04 pm
Very well said, mother hen!!!
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November 6, 2014 at 3:14 pm
thumbs up!!!!
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April 8, 2014 at 8:15 am
brilliant and funny (pink=shallow 😉 I had a great laugh at that…you hit the nail on the head with this post!
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April 10, 2014 at 11:22 am
Thanks, you know i kinda expected to get some negative feedback on this one but i haven’t. Yet, lol
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April 10, 2014 at 11:26 am
You haven’t because you are spot on!
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November 6, 2014 at 3:15 pm
Thanks so much
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November 6, 2014 at 3:26 pm
How do you cope with losing your child?
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April 10, 2014 at 2:49 pm
I don’t have a choice, i have a husband and four other children who need me. i know that i will see her again, and it may sound stupid but every night when i pray i talk to her, and i always feel sense of calm afterword like God is letting me know she will get the message.
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April 10, 2014 at 2:55 pm
I don’t think it’s stupid. I think my great grandma can see me and I talk to her too. I don’t see why God would not allow it.
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April 10, 2014 at 4:15 pm
It’s not stupid at all! Your daughter in one with us all in Christ but being closer to her in this life you can recognize her in Him. You may not hear her voice but your heart can hear hers and vice versa. The language of God is high than our words.
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April 16, 2014 at 8:44 pm
Thank you.
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April 16, 2014 at 9:03 pm
@mommyx4 & analytical perspective: I talk to my brother when I miss him the most. However crazy this sounds, I feel he reaches back to me with music. Every time I am missing him most I will hear a song or two that we loved on the radio. Most often,” Black Water” by the Doobie Brothers.
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November 8, 2014 at 9:21 am
That doesn’t sound crazy at all. 🙂
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November 8, 2014 at 10:51 am
I read somewhere that something isn’t crazy if it works. And that works for me.
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November 8, 2014 at 2:18 pm
sorry about the lose of your child and i think in your country women have equal rights to men compared to say my country.
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April 11, 2014 at 3:13 pm
Thank you, I can’t claim to know much about women’s rights in other parts of the world, but here everything really is equal. but some women have no desire for equality, they want superiority. Where are you from?
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April 11, 2014 at 3:23 pm
I can’t believe I missed this post!! I think you’ve been stealing from my playbook lol! Ah well, thanks for the breath of fresh air. If you want to see some real feminist claptrap in Christianity look at this article (http://blog.cbeinternational.org/2014/04/modeling-gender-equality-in-childrens-stories/). I commented there but they refuse to approve it. I can email you what I wrote which wasn’t offensive in the least but a correction to the author’s narrow-sighted claims. I can deal with feminism in world because we all know the world could care less about the truth. It does however strike much closer to home when Christians dabble with that word.
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April 16, 2014 at 8:40 pm
Ahh i hate it when people moderate like that, i approve everything. Especially people who say stupid stuff, i think its funny. Sounds good though email it to me.
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April 16, 2014 at 8:51 pm
Is there a link to your email around here?
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April 16, 2014 at 8:58 pm
Ha ha ha I have no idea, but my email is diananicoleroark29@gmail.com
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April 16, 2014 at 9:06 pm
Sent!
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April 16, 2014 at 9:11 pm
I read it and I agree. If women want to be respected they must first show respect. But you left something out, to get respect you must be respectable also
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April 16, 2014 at 9:16 pm
Of coarse…..nothing in a relationship is a 1-way street. There’s always a give and receive element present.
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April 16, 2014 at 9:19 pm
Did you see Matt Walsh’s recent post about feminism? Apparently there are a good number of women (and men) that think Christianity and feminism are compatible from the comments. The “pro-choice” feminists are a “radical fringe” in their point of view. Talk about fairy tales……The Little Mermaid is more believable than that claim!
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April 23, 2014 at 9:44 pm
Lol Seriously, No I didnt see that one, I will have to check it out.
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April 23, 2014 at 9:52 pm
Wow, this was a great read. Feminism bothers me. Women do have the same rights as men, but throw fits as if they are being held back from everything. Have they looked at the politicians in office right now? Have they seen all the women in those high ranking positions? The only person holding them back from being treated fairly, is themselves. If they go after something with determination, they’ll achieve it, but if they sit back and complain they’ll get nothing. It’s up to them. Regarding that blog post you read about the woman who did crack and killed her baby, the blogger’s response to that situation are horrendous. Who would cheer over such a thing? Unbelievable.
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May 28, 2014 at 1:23 pm
Thank you so much, im glad you liked it. And I agree with everything you said. There is plenty pf proof that women are treated equally, but thats not what most feminists want, they claim to want equality but in reality what they want is superiority, sadly they are getting what they want.
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May 28, 2014 at 1:32 pm
“Sadly they are getting what they want”, and because of it, the world is quickly going downhill. We see it’s negative impact primarily in families and children. It’s sad.
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May 28, 2014 at 1:39 pm
You’re absolutely right.
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May 28, 2014 at 1:40 pm
The problem is that it has nothing to do anymore with being treated equally. It became hunt… And a quest for becoming superior. Absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as you deserve to be superior… And that sort of slips their minds…
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November 6, 2014 at 3:19 pm
Exactly, and you made a good point about superiority.
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November 6, 2014 at 3:25 pm
I have to say, I am kind of disappointed. I fully expected to read some strong opposition but nary a one. I keep meaning to write my own post on this, because I don’t think all the points that feminists are bad but I do have issues with how they treat people who disagree with them. It is either their way or the highway and no room for discussion.
Thanks for sharing, really good read. 🙂
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November 6, 2014 at 1:43 pm
Thanks I appreciate that, if my blog was bigger or more people saw this then im sure there would have been a lot more comments on how im stupid and wrong, lol.
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November 6, 2014 at 1:51 pm
And curse the man that dares to use the name Opinionated Man! lmao…
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November 6, 2014 at 2:24 pm
For shame, a man that is opinionated? Call in the firing squad, lol.
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November 6, 2014 at 2:30 pm
Don’t shoot!!!!
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November 6, 2014 at 2:31 pm
It is indeed sad. People will use ANYTHING as a bullet point to further their cause. Sigh! =\
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November 6, 2014 at 2:24 pm
I am very much with you. Do believe though that she might have lashed out and used your boys as well to get to you even more. Not just because she wanted to lash out against men and boys. They are your kids. Bringing them into the picture makes you more vulnerable.
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November 6, 2014 at 3:13 pm
Yeah I know, but the bad thing is that I think she actually believed it as well.
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November 6, 2014 at 3:27 pm
Oh my…
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November 6, 2014 at 3:27 pm
Love the blog~
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November 6, 2014 at 7:51 pm
Unfortunately, there will always be those individuals within a group, or in this case, gender, who will give the entire group a bad image. This is why so many people have a problem with the idea of feminism. Unfortunately, extremism is a commonality in all groups these days, and these extreme voices tend to overpower the rest. No one, whether pro life or pro choice, should applaud an act such as abortion. I believe women have a right to their bodies, but it saddens me that someone would applaud that choice in such a manner. I’m glad I didn’t read that post because I would have given that woman a verbal bitch slapping she’d never forget. An abortion is a traumatic experience, and anyone who boasts about it has major mental issues.
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November 6, 2014 at 8:41 pm
You are right about extremists, they usually speak the loudest so they become the only voices heard, which is very damaging to any cause. If feminism was still in its first wave I would be a part of it myself. As far as abortion gos I am totally against it, I believe women should have the rights to their bodies but not when it involves killing another person. Thanks for taking the time to read and comment.
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November 7, 2014 at 5:54 am
Indeed! And I understand why you and others are against it. The problem I have is how people talk about it as if it’s some random decision people make every day. Abortion shouldn’t be a form of birth control, and I think this is the problem we’re seeing. People talk about it in that manner, and that’s not right. We both agree it’s the extreme voices that alter the content of ideology sad to say.
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November 7, 2014 at 11:33 am
I agree. I came across this video the other day about how men should not cat call. Oh my god, seriously! Maybe is just me, but I thought that was stupid. I have never been treated that way and even worked in an exclusive men’s field. I just couldn’t believe someone thought they had to do this and/or write a book about (I think the lady did or something. Gave up after listening a bit.) Anyways, I feel for men and think women need to fix their priorities. Great Post!!
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November 6, 2014 at 10:31 pm
Exactly, it is crazy how stupid things have gotten. Next your gonna have women saying men shouldnt look at me just because im a woman, lol.
Its good to know other women think things are going way to far.
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November 7, 2014 at 6:12 am
They are already saying that exact thing. Or at least, if I remember correctly, that was one of the targets on that video. Crazy, Crazy!! I think we need to start taking these women behind the shed for a little talk. LOL 😉
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November 7, 2014 at 8:26 am
Lol, im right there with ya 😉
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November 7, 2014 at 8:36 am
Finally a woman who speaks the truth and not just blindly says “Women are always right”.. Good article.. keep up. There are good women and good men in the world. Similarly the bad ones. Good and Bad has nothing to do with Gender, caste, religion, etc etc. Its just Good or bad !!
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November 7, 2014 at 1:43 am
Thankyou and I very much agree
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November 7, 2014 at 5:56 am
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